FAQ
Frequently asked questions
Answers to the most common questions about the Swinger For You swinger club in Budapest: you do not have to have sex, you do not have to undress, there are no cameras, and everything depends on mutual attraction.
We could paste in one of the tired descriptions anyone can find online. Instead, we share the thoughts that have come up most often as questions over the years. The list can always grow – if you have a question, write to us.
Do I have to have sex at the swinger club?+
No. NO means: what the other person wants from you, you do not want – no need to explain, no need to apologise. If someone keeps trying, tell the staff: we will ask that person to leave.
What matters most when my partner and I come for the first time?+
Agree precisely what is and is not okay for each of you; and agree a “safe word” (say “apple strudel”): when it is spoken, you both leave the room at once and talk it over discreetly outside. Jealousy exists – the word is not negotiable, there and then.
Do I have to undress at club events?+
Lingerie is the usual dress code, but at the Friday night dressed mixer you do not have to undress – if someone wants to sit at the bar in clothes, so be it. The jacuzzi and sauna are less comfortable in clothes, though.
Are condoms compulsory?+
Not with your own partner, but yes with others. An STI is not a cold: anyone can catch one, and it can be contagious for up to two weeks without symptoms. Condoms are provided at every event; the club is not responsible if someone chooses not to use one.
Is there anywhere sex is forbidden?+
No – at most places we do not recommend. If exhibitionism is your extra pleasure, there is a stage, and two rooms where, with the curtain open, everyone can see what is happening from outside.
Are there cameras in the club?+
No. There is a single camera above the front door which only assists entry and does not record. Anyone who takes photos or videos despite the ban is banned immediately and must delete the material before leaving.
What if my desires are unusual? Can I bring toys?+
You are welcome, and you can bring your favourite toys. As long as you cause no one an unpleasant moment, you belong here – but accept it if someone is not into your desires.
Is bisexuality accepted in the club?+
Yes, tolerance is the basis of the swinger lifestyle. But forget the “obvious signs”: a man smiling kindly at both members of a couple is not necessarily bisexual. Always agree in advance who wants what.
What if we meet someone we know?+
What happens in the club stays in the club – they were there too, so it becomes a shared secret. We have seen famous people at parties, but we have never told a journalist about anyone, and we will not reveal that you were here before with a different partner.
Does the club do matchmaking?+
At a party we are happy to introduce anyone to anyone; afterwards we never give out phone numbers – but we will pass on a message. That is what the membership app’s Dating feature is for: after a mutual like you can see each other’s event check-ins.
Are the couples at the parties couples in real life?+
We do not know and do not care. There is one rule: those who arrive as a couple leave as a couple – if one partner leaves, the other cannot stay alone in the club.
Can you make love in the jacuzzi?+
By default, no. With a condom and without disturbing others it is not a clear no – gentlemen are asked to spare the pool water. The principle: only do what you would happily watch from the edge of the pool.
Can I just come in to look around during a party?+
No – you would not want someone disturbing your fun by wandering around either. Before a party, at a pre-arranged time, we are happy to show you around – that is the Swinger Taster. Please arrange it by phone.
Do I need ID for membership, and what does it cost?+
No ID is required: you register with a name (any name you like), an e-mail address and a phone number on your first visit to the club. Membership costs HUF 5,000, is valid for 365 days from the date of issue and is accepted at Labirintus Swinger Club too.
Can I smoke in the club?+
No – Swinger For You is completely smoke-free, and the ban covers e-cigarettes and heated-tobacco devices too. You can smoke on the street outside the club, quietly, out of respect for the residents.